I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else. It takes an incredible amount of self discipline to first find and then be able to maintain a balance between life and medicine.
What if she absolutely despises sex. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires.
I love my job very much and it has give me many joys, but stimultaneus many hours apart from my children, my husband and my mother when there is a need.