I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you.
If you really care and think this is the lifestyle you wanted then go ahead. My husband had quite a late start in his career; he will be almost 40 by the time he starts residency so I feel we are already way behind women that horse, but also he has had a very hard time getting into residency as he went to med school outside the US.
It works, though, because I know that his beliefs have great worth.
They will teach the boys that cum is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt.